Sunday, February 26, 2012

Science Fair Project

It's 9:30PM. Normally, right now, I would be tucked up in bed, sleeping soundly. Not tonight. We are finishing up a required Science Fair Project. Ugh.

I know that teachers think that Science Fairs are the greatest. But really, they're not. It just means a WHOLE lot of work for mom. As a mom, I can just say: I left school a LONG time ago, and I really don't need to relive those times. I already resent my kids' homework, but Science Fair projects I just loath.

I find myself thinking that I just need the enthusiasm I had five years ago. Honestly, after quite a few Science Fairs under my belt, I am just burned out.

So how am I finding the time to type this blog?

Well, my friends, the answer is this: I rebelled. I didn't do the Science Fair. Alysa did. It was her task, her grade. She did it all. Yes, I helped her... but really JUST helped her. I reminded her nightly to do research. She did it herself. I was available to answer questions. I proof read her reports. I gave her a couple ideas. ALYSA did the work. As, I type, she is glueing papers and pictures and everything else onto a display board. ON HER OWN.

It's the first Science Fair Project that I think my kid has actually LEARNED something from. It's the first Science Fair Project, I've had a child be EXCITED about.

That's how a Science Fair Project should be.

Will she win? Probably not. Will she get an A+? I'm sure she won't.

BUT she did it herself, and she learned from it. She can be proud to say that it is 100% her work.I am proud of my little Alysa for that, no matter the outcome. I think she is more than a little proud of herself too.

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

To Kill a Mind

I remember my first day of College English. We all filed into the classroom, found a seat, and were handed a syllabus. Well, as part of the syllabus, there was a list of books that were required reading to pass the class. The list included a lot of really great books, many of which have become my favorites.
My amazing professor also gave us this little bit of information: "In the past, I have always included the 'Grapes of Wrath' by John Steinbeck as required reading. However, many of the parents in the community have complained about this, so it is no longer required. However, I STRONGLY encourage you each to read this book on your own time."
I did read the book on my own time. I found it to be an incredible, insightful read. I really couldn't figure out why it was banned, so I asked my teacher. The answer: because of the religious overtones surrounding a character named Jim Casey, who is an ex-reverend in the book.
I remember thinking, "Wow. That might just be the dumbest thing I have ever heard".

So why am I telling you all this?

Well, it's because recently a really stupid bill was introduced in the Arizona State Legislature. The bill, SB 1467, basically says that teachers in Arizona Public School's (including universities) cannot say or teach anything "that would violate the standards adopted by the Federal Communications Commission concerning obscenity, indecency and profanity if that speech or conduct were broadcast on television or radio.”

Now that might really be the dumbest thing that I have ever heard.

All this has made me look back on all the literary works that I was required to read during school. He's some of the one's that I remember:

Romeo and Juliet - William Shakespeare
Othello - William Shakespeare
The Taming of the Shrew - William Shakespeare
Hamlet - William Shakespeare
Midsummer Night's Dream - William Shakespeare
The Glass Menagerie - Tennessee Williams
Oedipus the King - Sophocles
Oedipus at Colonus - Sophocles
My Antonia - Willa Cather
Bless Me Ultima - Rudolfo Anaya
All the Pretty Horses - Cormac McCarthy
A Separate Peace - John Knowles
Animal Farm - George Orwell
The Giver - Lois Lowery
The Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass - Frederick Douglass
The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn - Mark Twain
The Scarlet Letter - Nathaniel Hawthorne
Crime and Punishment - Fyodor Dostoyevsky
The Chosen - Chaim Potok
To Kill a Mockingbird - Harper Lee
Edith Frome - Edith Wharton
The Turn of the Screw - Henry James
Of Mice and Men - John Steinbeck
Ishmael - Daniel Quinn
1984 - George Orwell
Walden - Henry David Thoreau

Okay, that is obviously not a complete list. It's the ones that I remember.

Do you realize that if this new bill were to become law pretty much ALL of these books would be banned from future curriculum in Arizona public schools?
Can you even imagine a classroom that DOESN'T teach Shakespeare? I kinda thought that 'Of Mice and Men' and 'To Kill a Mockingbird' were pretty much standard in schools across the USA.
What, exactly, are they suppose to read in Arizona literature classes?

The thing is, all books that are worth reading, are controversial in some way. That's the point. They are designed to make us THINK. GASP!
In the greatest novels, there is no black and white answer. The reason is because real life is gray. Real life is messy, and often there isn't a right or a wrong solution and endings aren't always wrapped up with a neat little bow on top.

Interestingly enough, the people who are often all for book banning are religious fanatics. They are afraid that if they expose their kids to something like 'The Grapes of Wrath' that come Sunday morning, their child will wake up and decide not to go to church because that's what Jim Casey did.
Yet, these same people are the ones who encourage, or even force, their kids to read the Bible - which is quite possibly the most violent and gray book ever written.
For Example:
In one part of the Bible, GOD hands down a set of rules, called the ten commandments. I'm sure you're familiar with the story. Well, one of these rules states, "though shalt not kill". Yet, later on, David becomes a hero for killing one of the Bible's biggest bullies - Goliath.
Talk about controversial.

If you are still having a hard time agreeing with me on the stupidity of banning books, here are some pretty convincing statistics:

■ 85 percent of all juveniles who interface with the juvenile court system are functionally illiterate.

■ More than 60 percent of all prison inmates are functionally illiterate.

■ Penal institution records show that inmates have a 16% chance of returning to prison if they receive literacy help, as opposed to 70% who receive no help.

■ Illiteracy and crime are closely related. The Department of Justice states, “The link between academic failure and delinquency, violence, and crime is welded to reading failure.” Over 70% of inmates in America's prisons cannot read above a fourth grade level.
(National Institute for Literacy, 1998)

What this is saying is, that the thing that is even more dangerous than your child reading the fuck word or a sex scene, is NOT allowing your child to read good thought provoking books.

If you still don't agree with me, then maybe it's time you picked up and read '1984' or 'The Giver' or 'The Handmaid's Tale'. You can read, for yourself, just how dangerous this book banning road may be.

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Telling Lies on the Blood Donor Questionnaire: A Cautionary Tale

Since I turned eighteen, I have regularly given blood. I like giving blood. It makes me proud to know that I am helping those who are in need. I also think it has something to do with me being grateful for all the people who donated the blood in the past. When my mom had cancer, she received ALOT of donated blood. Those people literally saved my mom's life. I like to believe that maybe I am helping save someone else's mom.
Brian, was not into the blood giving scene until when moved to Vegas. I suspect it had something to do with United Blood Services in Vegas giving away REALLY awesome gifts to their donors (like, free show tickets).
After he donated blood for the first time, they discovered that he has some super cool, rare, "magic" blood. Apparently, there is a high demand for his blood type, but not a whole lot of people have it. United Blood Services started calling him CONSTANTLY. Brian was a good sport for a while. I think he just liked the attention and feeling special, but after a while it started to get on his nerves.
So Brian hatched a plan to get them to stop calling...
He scheduled an appointment and went to donation center. As usual, he was called back and asked questions about his health history, and "risky" lifestyle behaviors. Only this time, he answered them all wrong. He told them that he had gotten a tattoo in the last year (lie), that he had shared needles with others for illegal drug use (lie), that he had had sex with both men and women for money since 1970 (lie), etc... His planned worked. They stopped calling him, and all was right with the world.
Or so it seemed...
About a month ago, Brian and I went to the MVD here in AZ to get our new drivers licenses. We both signed up to be tissue and organ donors because, that's what good people do. There's no use letting a perfectly good heart or set of eyeballs go to waste if someone can use them, right?
Today I got a letter in the mail that told me, "Congratulations" for choosing to be an organ donor. It also had a nifty little sticker for me to stick on my drivers license to let people know how cool I really am.
Brian also got a letter. Unfortunately, his was not good news. He was rejected as a candidate for future organ or tissue donations because of his medical and lifestyle history. As in, the one he LIED about back in Vegas. Apparently, there is a data base for these things.
I have been laughing ALL night. Brian, on the other hand, does not find it so amusing and is getting really annoyed that I do. I think he is jealous that I have a sticker and he doesn't.
I guess the moral of the story is: DO NOT lie on that blood donor questionnaire. It WILL come back to haunt you!!!

Monday, January 16, 2012

Window Peeping

I am the kind of person that finds joy in very simple things.
Don't worry, I am not going to post something stupid about finding happiness in a baby's smile, and dancing in the rain.
What I really enjoy is a nice, relaxing, long, hot bubble bath. I usually will sit and read my Kindle during these baths. As you can guess, because I have kids, a husband, and work these baths are few and far between.
The other thing that I really enjoy is the sun. It's really the number one reason I LOVE living in the southwest. EVERY day, (well, almost) is bright and sunny without a single cloud in the sky. And for the most part, I really LOVE our 120 degree summers, when I can just sit on a floatie in the pool and soak in all the sun.
Our new house in Arizona has the most amazing Master bathroom:



Just look at that big garden tub, with the big privacy window above it. I can enjoy my bath and the sunlight. Perfect, right?
Wrong.
Apparently, that window is not as "private" as it appears to be. Looking through that window from the outside, you can see everything. So, after several months of living here, I have learned that I have fully exposed all of the neighbors everytime I got into, and out of the bath.
At least I don't have to worry about my naked pictures being leaked onto the internet. I am 100% NO ONE wants to willingly see that.

Saturday, December 17, 2011

It's All About Perspective...

Do you consider yourself affluent?

I, certainly, never have. I mean, while I am not poor, I am, most definitely, not rich. I've always considered my family just an average, middle class family. Just like everyone else.
Well, the thing is, when compared to the rest of the world, I am very rich. And if you are reading this, it probably means that you are rich too.

Here's the facts:

* 56% of people living on this planet, live in EXTREME poverty. They exist on an income of less than $2 a day. Half of these people (28% of the world population), survive on less than $1 a day.

* 80% of the world lives on an income of less than $10 a day. That means, the poorest of Americans - those living on food stamps, section 8 housing, and medicaid - are still richer than at least 80% of the rest of the world.

* 1/5 of the people worldwide do not own a single pair of shoes. The average American woman owns 19 pairs.

* 1/4 of humanity lives without electricity. I know I will think twice when I complain about my electric bill.

* There are 2.2 billion children in the world. 1 billion (roughly 1/2) live in poverty. Of those 1 billion children:
*640 million are without adequate shelter.
*400 million have no access to safe water.
*270 million have no access to health services of any kind.

* Nearly a billion people entered the 21st century unable to read a book or sign their names. Almost all Americans can read and write. However, on average we only read about 3 books a year. 25% of us will not even read one.

* Less than 1% of what the world spends yearly on weapons, would be enough to provide education services to every child in the world. Yet, 121 million children are not receiving any kind of education.

It's very humbling to consider, that a majority of people in the world cannot even fathom living the lifestyle that we take for granted every single day. It's especially easy to forget how privileged we are, at this time of the year, when we tend to overspend and over-indulge in every way. I think that we should all take a time out, and just for a minute, remember how blessed we really are.
I know that today, I am ALOT more grateful for what I have.

Monday, December 5, 2011

Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, or Seasons Greetings?

This morning while listening to my favorite radio show - Evlis Duran in the Morning (from New York) - they had a big debate on what was the most appropriate way to greet people during the holiday season, while still being sensitive to the fact that not everyone is Christian.
It got me thinking... which is almost always a bad thing.
This is our first Christmas in Arizona. Here, it seems like everything is "Merry Christmas". I'm not surprised, since there is not a very big population of non-christians, and for the fact that Arizona is one of the most conservative states in the union (In my opinion, Conservative = die hard Christian. Most of the time.). In Vegas, this was not the case.
In Vegas, there was a HUGE population of non-Christians. It's a very diverse city. I miss that. I LOVED the fact that during the winter holidays, my girls' school had both a Menorah, and a Christmas tree in the lobby of their school. I loved that they learned all about Hanukka, Christmas, Kwanza, and even Boxing Day at school. You know how most schools do a 'World Fair'? Their Vegas school did too, only it was a 'Christmas Around the World' fair. I loved that they got to learn about all different cultures. I loved that they got to learn about how even Christians celebrate the holiday differently around the world. I loved that they learned songs celebrating all the above listed holidays in choir. It was awesome! I think it makes it easier for them to accept and relate to people of all backgrounds. Best of all, NO ONE complained. Not one student, not one parent, not one teacher - because they treated each holiday equal. Even the Jahova's Wittnesses got to go spend awesome time in the library while their classes were talking about holiday stuff (Although, surpisingly, most of them opted out of that time and let their kids learn. Kudos to them.).
Ady's best friend in Vegas, Hannah, is Jewish. It was fun for her, and for me, to learn about all the exciting, and different traditions that they celebrate. Ady even wanted to be Jewish for a while because, "Jewish people have much cooler holidays than we do". I told her, "AWESOME! Guess that means I don't have to put up the Christmas tree!". She changed her mind pretty fast.
Hannuka, last year, was pretty much right at Christmas time last year. I saw Hannah's dad one day, while picking up the girls from school. Since it was during the eight days of Hannuka and he is Jewish, I wished him a "Happy Hannuka". He wished me a "Merry Christmas" in return. Nobody was offended. I felt like, we were just wishing each other the best during their individual holiday. That's how it SHOULD be.
So I guess, my thing is: WHY DOES IT HAVE TO BE SO WEIRD? Really? Why? America is supposably the world's "melting pot". We have people of all religions. So celebrate them all. If your Christian, Jewish, whatever... do your thing and respect everyone else.
So, what is the proper greeting during the holidays? Well, it depends on you and what YOU believe in. If your Jewish, during Hannuka say, "Happy freaking Hannuka" If you are Christian, say "Merry freaking Christmas". If you have a friend who you know celebrates a different holiday than you do, then respect them, and give them a Merry or Happy, whatever.
Really, people. Why do we have to make this so complicated?
And now, just to make this post longer, I have one more (or a couple) thing(s) to say:
I work at Walmart (I just need to make things clear, I LOVE my job. Yep, it's Walmart, but I like it. No hating. I promise I'll post more on it later, since I know you all are dying to know.), given the nature of my job, I don't normally deal with customers on a regular basis. However, when I do, I don't wish them a Merry Christmas, a Happy Hannuka, or Happy Kwanza as they are leaving. I tell them to have a good day. A good freaking day. Why does it have to be more difficult than that?
I guess it's easy for me. I believe in everything and nothing at the same time. So, when people pressure me to go to their church, so that I can be "saved" (I've had that happen ALOT) - I just think it feels nice that someone likes me enough that they are willing to spend their idea of eternity with me. So maybe, it's easier for me, because I don't feel, um, threatened. I just feel we could all learn something from someone else. Or think of it this way, almost all religions believe in peace in harmony - in living to be the best you can be, and honoring a set of morals that will benefit the human race. So what if different shoes, fit different people... they are still good, right? So wish them a Happy freaking Hannuka, or Happy freaking Christmas.
I guess, I think, if someone is wishing you a happy ANYTHING, you should feel grateful. At least, they are not tell you to "F" off!

Sunday, November 27, 2011

Cyber Monday

Yep. It's been almost a YEAR since I've made a post. I apologize to those of you who have been holding their breath in anticipation for my next post. I have ALOT to fill ya'll in on. BUT, I'm not going to do that now.
So, for the moment, enjoy this little nugget:

Tomorrow is Cyber Monday. In the past, this would not have meant exactly nothing to me. Now that I am, oh - so - proud to say that I work in the dotcom department at Walmart (more on that later), it means a WHOLE lot to me. Especially, since Walmart decided to turn "Cyber Monday" into "Cyber Week".

For those of you who don't know (probably, the two of you who will actually read this, don't), the dotcom associates (there are exactly TWO of us) deal with all the site to store shipping. Site to Store shipping is when you are too cheap to have it delivered to your house. So, you have it delivered to the Walmart near you, for free, instead. I didn't know that Site to Store even exsisted before that became my job. I guess, instead of being cheap, I am just lazy and always chose to have it shipped to my front door.

Anway, I really need to get to the point, which is:

TIPS FOR ORDER ONLINE AT WALMART.COM

1) Don't be lazy. Really. You can order DVD's and Books, and other small items online at Walmart.com and pay only $0.99 cent shipping. I said NINETY NINE CENTS. I know some of you like to pinch pennies, but REALLY? $0.99? The gas you spend to get to your Walmart and back home, probably costs more than that. It's cheaper and less stressful to spend the extra $$$, on most items, to have it shipped to your home.

2) If you don't have it shipped to your home, understand it's going to take time. Meaning, you will have to wait until I find it in the backroom at the store. Do you have any idea how many packages I have to sort through to find yours? Alot. Deal with it, and don't be an ass about it. I firmly believe nothing comes without a price tag attached. You may have gotten free shipping, but you WILL pay for it by waiting.

3) The first email you get is a confirmation email. It confirms that you ordered the item and will give you an ESTIMATED delivery date. If you continue reading, it will also tell you that it will send you an email when the package arrives at your store. Please, do not show up for your package before recieving notification that the package is AT THE STORE. If you do, you are going to waste your time, and mine. I don't really care that you showed up on the ESTIMATED delivery date. If the package is not there, it's not there. I can't make it magically appear just because you don't understand the definition of, 'ESTIMATED'.

4) If your package is damaged or lost, IT IS NOT MY FAULT. You have to understand, I personally don't have alot to do with your purchase. It got loaded onto the Walmart truck, by someone else. The instock workers (which doesn't include me) pull it off the truck. The only thing I do, is recieve the item on the computer system, bin it (give it a traceable home until you pick it up), and then bring it out to you when you come to get it. If it's broken, or even the wrong item, that has NOTHING to do with me. So don't yell at me for it - it'll only piss me off, and make me less likely to help you out.

5) If your item is large, and you need help with it, don't be the idiot who says: "Oh, the label says, 'this side up' or 'don't lay flat' or 'fragile' so make sure that you follow the directions". Are you kidding? That box has been kicked, throw, lifted, transported, and stored in every possible position. It, pretty much, went through hell and back before you picked it up. I promise you, if it hasn't been broken yet, having it positioned on the wrong side in your mini-van for the five miles to your house, isn't going to do it any damage. I PROMISE.



Anyway. I hope that gives you all something to think about, BEFORE you place that online order - at Walmart.com, or anywhere else.

HAPPY SHOPPING!!!

Monday, January 31, 2011

Bite of Las Vegas

I am so behind on this blog that it is scary! But I am attempting to catch up.
Anyway...

In October, we went to the annual Bite of Las Vegas Food and Music Festival. The girls were SUPER excited, because Miranda Cosgrove (the actress on ICarly) was going to making an appearance. So we got up really early, drove to the concert site, waited in line for what seemed like a million years, but they finally got to see Miranda Cosgrove and get a signed autograph!

Besides Miranda Cosgrove, we got to see Christina Perri, Ryan Star, and the Plain White T's. All the performances were amazing, but I especially loved Ryan Star and the Plain White T's.



Ryan Star


Mark and Mercedes interviewing Miranda Cosgrove

The Plain White T's



Thursday, January 6, 2011

It's a mess...

The blog is a mess right now, and there are several posts with nothing on them. I am aware. I am just trying to get it all organized. Bare with me! :) There are a couple of new posts though if you keep scrolling down!

Day 16: Home Sweet Home!

I really enjoyed my visit in England, but after being gone for two weeks, I was really ready to come home. We had to be up and ready really early to catch the shuttle bus. Luckily we got there in plenty of time, without any problems this time!
Unfortunately, we weren't lucky enough to get a free upgrade to first class on the way back. And the flight home was alot longer for some reason. And I had to sit next what may very well have been the world's most annoying lady. Needless to say, it was not a good flight and by the time we landed in New York, I was tired and ornery.
Then Patricia got stopped by immigration. She was pulled back in their office, so that they could check her out and make sure she wasn't a terrorist or something. They wouldn't let me wait for her there, so I went to baggage claim and got our bags and waited for her there so we could go through customs. She never came, and never came. Pretty soon I was the only one left at the baggage claim area, and I was informed, and not very politely, that I was not allowed to wait there either. No one would give me any information, and everyone kept yelling at me for loitering. I'm not really sure what they wanted me to do, since I couldn't go through customs with somebody else's bags, but they wouldn't let me leave them anywhere for her either. UGH! Finally, they decided that Patricia isn't really a threat to national security and let her go. We made it through customs, and boarded our plane in just the nick of time. I was just really happy to leave New York behind!
The flight to Vegas seemed to take forever. I was just so ready to be home, and in my own bed. I almost cried tears of joy when I finally spotted the strip from the plane window!
Brian met us at the baggage claim... with a surprise. He rented a limo to take us home in!!! While the chauffeur loaded our bags, we climbed into the back of the limo to find a dozen roses for both Patrica and myself and a bottle of Champagne. It was definitely at awesome experience to cruise down the strip, sipping Champagne in the back of a limo!
Brian definitely scored some bonus points for that one!
The next day, we met my mom and Kirk in Cedar City to get the girls. I was so happy to see them! I missed them so much!
Overall, it was an amazing trip! Definitely and experience of a lifetime! But it also made me appreciate home, and my family alot more!!!

Day 15: Hampton Court Palace

Hamton Court Palace (home of King Henry the VIII)

Cruising down the River Thames

Day 14: London!

We decided to leave Ipswich early Sunday morning to give us two full days in London before heading back across the pond. Apparently, though, they close down the railways on most Sunday's for maintenance, so we had to take the bus.

The bus ride was about two hours, and took us right into the heart of London. We were able to see a few cool sights from the windows along the way - including the some of the building they are constructing for the next Olympics. From the bus station, we caught a cab to our hotel room.

We checked in, climbed about a million steep, narrow steps (elevators and escalators are something of a scarcity in England), and took our bags into our room. Upon first seeing our room, I almost wanted to laugh! It was so tiny! And the bathroom was even smaller. I really thought that I would never find a bathroom more tiny than the bathroom we had in our room on the cruise ship in Hawaii, but this one had it beat. I literally could have sat on the toilet, showered and brushed my teeth a the same time. But the room, was clean, bedbug free, and fairly cheap - so I wasn't complaining!





After dropping our bags off, we headed out to see the Tower of London. One, of the nicest things about London is that the public transportation system is awesome! It's impossible to walk to far without running into a underground station. We found it was easiest to buy an Oyster card - which is basically a prepaid subway ticket. For a flat rate, you can ride the subway as many times as you want using the Oyster card - we bought two days worth of Subway passes.

The Tower of London was amazing!!! Once again, we rented an audio tour - it was very much worth it! I think my favorite part was seeing the crown jewels. Especially the part where I almost got kicked out because I failed to notice the sign that said you couldn't take pictures. :)

Anyway... if anyone wants to know more about the Tower of London here is a awesome link: http://www.hrp.org.uk/toweroflondon/


The Tower of London
The White Tower

Changing of the Guard in front of the building where the Crown Jewels are housed.


A memorial sculpture to all those who were executed (beheaded) on the tower green including Anne Boylen, Catherine Howard and Lady Jane Grey.
Graffiti in the Beauchamp Tower (where prisoners were kept).
Me in the Beauchamp Tower window.
Me and some Beefeaters or officially known as Yeoman Warders (Tower of London guards).
The Chapel Royal of St. Peter ad Vincula - where many famous executed prisoners are buried.
The ravens of the White Tower. Legend is that if the ravens ever leave, the tower will crumble and fall.
Tools of Torture in the Bloody Tower.

After visiting the Tower of London, we decided to go on a open top boat ride down the River Thames to Big Ben and the house of Parliament. Here were some sights we saw along the way:


Tower Bridge, the Major of London's Residence, Shakespeare's Globe Theatre, Saint Paul's Cathedral Random Buildings, Cleopatra's Needle, The London Eye, Houses of Parliament and Big Ben


After getting of the boat, we walked down to Buckingham Palace. The flag was raised, so it meant the Queen was in residence that night!

Buckingham Palace
After visiting Buckingham Palace, it was getting late, so we decided to start heading back. The subway station just happened to be right next to Trafalgar Square. So we decided to get a cup of tea and enjoy the view of Nelson's Column before getting on underground. This is when I got a phone call from Brian. He was in a panic - well more like freaking clear out - because the U.S. Government had issued a warning for all U.S. citizens in Germany, France, and the UK to use caution, and beware of possible terrorist attacks. I calmed him down, and promised him that we were in no danger. In fact, never did see anything about it on the news in England - I only found out all the details once we got home. It was however, a little unnerving.
We got off the subway, at the station closest to our hotel. However, we somehow got a little turned around. Yeah. We were lost. I never did tell Brian about this though, because he is STILL freaked out by the warning the government issued while I was there. The good part about being lost, is that we stumbled across little Italian restaurant, that had the best Italian food ever. After wandering around, we had worked up an appetite! And luckily, someone there knew where our hotel was able to give us directions. We were only about a block away!

Day 13: The Theatre

Day 12: A Trip to the Records Office

Day 11: Felixstow and Landgaurd Fort

Felixstow



Day 10: Orford Castle and the Ispwich Docks

On Thursday, Patricia's sister Carol had a half day off of work, so she agreed to drive us to Orford to see the castle. I was really excited about this because, it just so happens that one of my direct ancestors, Robert Le Blount (Blunt), was the Lord of Orford Castle. I though it was really awesome to be able to walk around the exact grounds where he lived so many hundreds of years ago.
We took the audio tour, and braved alot of really steep narrow steps - but it was very much worth it when we ended up on the roof with some absolutely amazing views of the village below and the surrounding countryside!






Orford Castle


After touring Orford Castle, we drove to Snape Maltings. The weather couldn't have been more perfect! Coming from Las Vegas, where temperatures were still in the hundreds and the sky is always blue, I really wasn't used to the daily rain. So, I was very appreciative of the warm weather and clear skies! We walked along the river, just enjoying the scenery and soaking in the sunshine. After a while, we found a cute little cafe and had lunch outside. I had the most yummiest goat cheese and red onion panini - it was so good. It also came with a small salad, and this is when I learned that the English have something against proper salad dressing.


I know it's annoyingly American, but I LOVE my ranch dressing. I am pretty sure that there is nothing that ranch doesn't taste fabulous on! But finding ranch in England is impossible. Finding ANY salad dressing is impossible. Instead, they have Salad Cream, which is quite possibly the worst invention ever. It tastes like light mayonnaise. Not good. Blech. I even brought home a bunch of packets for Brian to try, and he agreed with me.


Snape Maltings and the River Alde


After lunch, Carol needed to head back to work. Patricia and I weren't quite ready to go back to the house yet, so we had her drop us off by the docks in Ipswich. All the of the old mills, and warehouses next to the docks have been fixed up and converted into restaurants and nightclubs. It was really fun to just stroll around and see all the neat old buildings and the boats.



The Ipswich Docks

Days 8 & 9: Grocery Store and More Shopping!

Holiday Fun

I really don't know what is wrong with me. Apparently, I have lost the blogging spirit. I haven't even finish writing about my England trip yet. Ugh. But I am making a half-hearted attempt to get this blog somewhat updated, today.

Holidays...
We were suppose to go to Phoenix and spend Thanksgiving with Mike and Misty. We ended up not going. Maren was coming home for Christmas, so we had decided to spend some of Christmas break in Utah. Between that expense, and buying Christmas for six kids, we just decided a Phoenix trip was just an added expense that we didn't really need at this point. I was sad, because we were really looking forward to seeing Mike and Misty and kids.
We did have a fun Thanksgiving with our friends Jim and Kim and their kids Justin, Kayla, and Jordan. We were grateful that they invited us to their home, and to have someone to spend the holiday with.

A couple of weeks later, Reed and Josie were in town for the National Finals Rodeo. We were able to go out to breakfast with them. The kids LOVE that. In fact, they look forward to it every year! Afterwards, we decided to head over to the Bass Pro Shop to see Santa and visit the Mermaid Cafe.
On the way there, we had to drive by the airport. We discovered a pull off spot, next to the road, where you can sit and watch the planes take off and land. The girls were completely fascinated. It was a job to pull them away from the planes, so that we could get back on the road.
We waited in line for a million years at the Bass Pro Shop to see Santa. Once we got to the front, Ady started to get a little shy about sitting on Santa's lap. She told me she is getting a little bit big for the whole Santa thing. It was a little sad. She is ten already, where has all the time gone? I convinced her, to enjoy one last year. She can be to big for Santa next year. It didn't take a whole lot of convincing. :)
Afterwards, we headed to the Mermaid Cafe. While we were waiting for the Mermaid to make her appearance, we ran into my cousin Jeremy and his wife and kids. I haven't seen them for years! It was really nice to sit back and catch up on what is going on with our families and such. My girls are about the same age as their girls, so they had alot of fun getting to know each other. They were sad to go home.
Maybe I am getting old, or maybe I am just boring. But that was about all the excitement I could handle for one day. So we came home and Brian and I took a nap while the kids proceeded to tear up the house.

The girls had alot of time of this year for Christmas break. They were off the whole week before Christmas. My sister Maren, and her hubby Matt made the journey from Kansas and were going to be staying at my moms for the entire week before Christmas. So, the girls and I decided to head to Gunnison on Monday December 20th. We wanted to beat the storm that was suppose to come later in the week.
All was well on the roads, until we hit Richfield - 40 minutes away from Gunnison - and it started to snow. The roads were slick and icy, there were cars slid off the road everywhere, and we could only drive about 25 miles an hour on the freeway. To make it even more fun, my defrost had decided to go out, so the car was freezing cold and the windows kept fogging up. Then the windshield wiper went out. Good times! But we made it in one piece, and I was reminded of how much I REALLY love my Vegas winters!
It snowed about 16 inches that first night. The girls were thrilled. Me... not so much. They were suppose to go to school with my mom that morning, but Sanpete County School District called a snow day. A snow day? I don't think that I ever had one of those growing up. So they spent the day playing in the snow, and I spent the day watching them from the window!

We had alot of fun during our week visit. We were able to go to my mom's school and play in the gym on some roller things (I have no idea what to call them), eat at El Mexicano TWICE (the best food EVER), and I even braved the snow to go sledding with the kids.




Brian joined us Friday, the 24th. We drove to Steve and Tina's house in Manti that night to have the Roberts' family party. It was so fun for us all to get together. The kids had an awesome time playing with their cousins!
Christmas morning was so much fun with my whole family all together! The kids all got what they wanted, and we scored some pretty awesome stuff too!


I was really not thrilled about the whole idea of spending Christmas away from home. I usually like a nice relaxing Christmas in my own house. But I am really glad that went outside of my comfort zone and went!
Everyone left the day after Christmas. It was really hard to let my little sis go, not knowing when I will see her again since they are moving to Hawaii in a couple of months. But I am glad that we got to spend the time we had together!
We picked the boys up on the way home, and had Christmas round 2 at our house. They got to spend the week with us, and it was nice to have everyone home!

New Years Eve, we did the same as we always do and had a party at home for the kids. My friend Krystina and her two little girls, as well as Kim and Jim and their kids, and Patricia all came over. The kids had alot of fun and EVERYONE, including myself, was able to stay awake until midnight to bang pots and pans outside! We are so blessed to have such wonderful friends!
I can't believe that we are now starting a new decade! Brian and I were talking about everything that has happened in the last 10 years. It was the most eventful decade of my life! Marriage, kids, moves...ect. It's hard to believe how much life can change in a a decade. It's also scary to think that at the end of this decade, our oldest (Austin) will be 25 and Brylee, the youngest, will be 15! Crazy!!!!

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Day 7: Christchurch Park and Mansion

We woke up early Monday morning and headed out to downtown Ipswich to go to Christchurch Park and Mansion.

The morning was a little cold, but it wasn't raining, and I was really happy to be able to soak up a little Vitamin D. We spent quite a while wandering around the huge, beautiful park taking in the scenery. Patrica told me about how when she was a kid, she we would go to the park and collect the horse chestnuts. The would drill holes in them, put a string through it and make "clonkers". After a long walk, we found a little concession stand where we sat and had a cup of tea. Just as we were finishing our drinks, it started to get windy and rainy, so we headed to the mansion.

The mansion was HUGE, and amazing beautiful. It was completely restored to fit what it would have been like during the Victorian era.
In the back part of the mansion, they had a gallery of Constable and Gaines (famous, local Suffolk artists) work. I could have spent hours in the gallery. It was amazing!


Christchurch Park and Mansion

Afterwards, we caught the bus into town, and had a light dinner at a local pub. I had the cheese chips (fries). I don't think I could ever get enough of the English cheddar!!!


brolly (underbrella) holder inside the pub

Inside the pub

Day 6: Sunday Dinner With Brian and Karen

I'm actually skipping this day for right now. My camera died, so I wasn't able to take and pictures. So, I need to get copies of the pictures that Patricia took.